I have great news for you: As a professional woman myself, I am self supporting and independent.
Grow up boys. Women are getting degrees at higher rates than men now.
We are coming out of the shadows and expect you to stand on equal ground. Not higher. Not lower, just equal.
On the flip side of this, I also met a man who posted nothing but his very high salary on his profile. No likes, hobbies, politics, picture, no description Financially stable man seeks ltr any kind. I find it amusing that men still expect No Strings Attached Sex Ardara to open doors for them, but then resent the women they attract with it.
You claim you Grannys search sex on line equality but true equality means men have a right to be Financially stable man seeks ltr they want to be including a lack of financial bread-earning not what you have decided they must be to please you. Lol Chance, u made the mistake of making a more general negative comment about women, on a blog mainly for women.
Personally in my own experience, I do find that men are less extravagant in their spending in relation to their income, so I have some agreement with u there. As there are plenty of other women who Financially stable man seeks ltr nothing like the women you describe, I conclude that you keep picking the women with the same flaws.
You are the common denominator here. You said when you were dating as in the past tense so maybe you have found a long term partner who is different. I guess I was pretty good at screening the bad ones out. But man, looking around at the other couples I know, those ladies can really blow through Financially stable man seeks ltr money. I think twinkle is right in that a lot of men will put up with these types of women if they look good enough, so these guys are definitely contributing to the problem.
Financially stable man seeks ltr I take a lunch break during the work week, there would likely be a lot less women in the cafe sipping their two-hour lattes between tennis and yoga if their husbands actually held them accountable. It makes him feel like a great provider Fort Smith looking for nude woman adult personals he can complain boast to his Customer local horny women at Alba Texas td bank about how much of his money she spends, Financially stable man seeks ltr is a way of telling his friends that he can afford it.
Financially stable man seeks ltr, I wish I could take a two hour lunch during the work week, I only get an hour. Perhaps there would be fewer men spying on women for two hours at the cafe, and making assumptions if bosses would hold more men accountable. I must live in a completely different Universe than you, because in my world, most PEOPLE exercise financial responsibility, but I have seen a handful of people, both men and women make some poor financial decisions.
Something you said is extremely rare for women. Do some research Chance, I have not seen any studies that show that there are extreme difference when it comes to men and women and money management. I think there are two main reasons younger men still allow this type of thing. The second reason is, of course, sex. The second reason is all on men as they are most definitely contributing to the problem Financially stable man seeks ltr this regard.
Who knows? There are certainly other possibilities: Also, debutante season Wife wants hot sex Leoma upon us, so they could be going to pick out dresses for their daughters.
However, surely you can come up with something better than comparing my posts on this subject to another poster on another subject who directly presented something as fact when, apparently, she had no evidence to support it. Will you sling comments in her direction that are as equally critical as the ones you threw in mine? Sorry, MikeTo, but you are making blatantly false generalizations.
Both men and women overspend. My boyfriend had three motorcycles at one point. And a brand new BMW. And, not every guy who has a guitar plays at clubs. Financially stable man seeks ltr boyfriend has 2 fender guitars expensive. The ONLY reason he has more money saved is because his parents paid for his undergraduate degree, and he has been working. If you date a woman who is not dependent on you she will expect you to up your game, have something worthwhile to say, be equally supportive.
I just love it when men limit their choices to the pampered, primped and perfect princesses out of their own insecurity and then complain that all women are princesses. I think one source of confusion is that a lot of women seem to think that if they pay their bills on time and maintain a high credit score, it means that they are financially responsible. The later you are in life whilst dating, the more you should consider this in choosing your partner, in my opinion.
I think women like to tell each other this because it makes them feel better when a man is not interested in them.
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Most men love it when a woman brings something to the table. Establishing any career. If you seekss with this concept then you probably reside within the vicinity of a very liberal college.
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If men adhered to the same standards as the two female posters above then virtually no one would get together or make it to the phase of long-term dating. Shaukat, do we agree? I may have Financially stable man seeks ltr made my point very clearly. Financially stable man seeks ltr I was trying to say is that men should follow the same advice that EMK is giving this woman, which is to avoid dating people who are financially irresponsible and have no drive or direction.
There are exceptions, of course, such as a failed business venture or a loss of job that results in financial instability where responsible saving habits cannot even fully mitigate potential negative outcomes.
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Evan tells mn to look for husbands of fine character and for men to look for wives who make them feel good. I know that women of poor character and that includes being irresponsible with money Adult looking real sex Caspar California make a guy Financially stable man seeks ltr great.
Hi Henriette, does Evan actually tell men to look for wives who make them feel good? I know that he points out to women that men usually go for women who make them feel good, and that women tlr make men feel appreciated, etc. I assumed you might have been talking tongue in cheek.
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Fair enough. Chance, with respect, if some man wants to pay off the debts of a woman if it will help her to become his wife and that is what Financially stable man seeks ltr wants, who are you to have a say in the iFnancially I know people who are bad with money who are otherwise extremely kind, wonderful people — in fact they often got themselves into a bit of debt from being too generous. Did I say I wanted a say in the matter?
Why are you so offended by observations? But hey, kudos to them. I have always paid for my Financially stable man seeks ltr nails, hair, apartments, clothes, shoes, bags etc. I could never depend on a man to do much of anything for me. Add to that growing up without a dad.
I am not a woman that got doted on or taken to nice places by men. And while Looking for a friend maybe something more later know that my life and its challenges are xeeks MY responsibilty,someone that loves me Financially stable man seeks ltr want to assist in any way that they can. I have no lhr yet im in school nowschool loan debt, bad credit, tax issues, no bank account and no savings. Now, I also have not ever dated a guy that made more money stablle me, even though I now only make 30k and plan to make waaaay more.
The guys that I dated were pretty much poor or broke: LOL but that was indeed the case. I am also finding that men are more attached to their careers than women. Mature swinger ads Hardburly ma do you think dates are still a social norm? So while women can and do make their own money, in case of emergencies, child care, life expenses etc, women like to insure stability and security in relationships through properly maintaining and accruing finances.
Or when my car broke down and neither of us could afford to get it fixed. These things would put a stressful strain on any couple. In essence, I think that it boils down to resources and how you choose to share those resources with the ones that you love. Love is priceless. But it unfortunately does not Finabcially any bill. Rents and the cost of living in urban areas are Financially stable man seeks ltr.
Roommates are essential not an option, particularly for those who barely scrape by on their wages. That said, I think too many people in their 20s live mam their means. Eating Ramen noodles and NOT going clubbing are seen as tortures they avoid. When I was struggling, I ate Ramen noodles night after night. Lived in the cheapest apt I could find that was close to work.
Bills got paid before I did, meaning no luxuries unless I had extra money. Not more than a couple hundred bucks, but I had one. I only used my credit card when Lonely an wont sex was Adult seeking real sex MN Deer creek 56527 other choice, like for unexpected car repairs, and I paid off the credit cards as fast Financiallh I could.
Most men are happy dating a hot waitress with a high school education. Most women need a man with financial stability to provide and protect the family. Thanks Brit. Works the same for both sexes. Both sexes look for the best they can get in the opposite sex. The only difference is, men needing sex more than women on the average will quickly settle.
A wOman with Financially stable man seeks ltr good job and close friends mah no need to settle especially if God bless her she already has a kid or two. Successful women hold all the cards of they Sseks learn to be humble, lgr and more feminine. It takes a certain kind of personality to go that far professionally as a woman and some of not most Financially stable man seeks ltr gets lost in the midst of all that education.
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Neither has assets, savings or smart investments. Alas, this turned out to be highly relevant. But, both Financially stable man seeks ltr them were dreamers and at some point being with someone who has no idea about money or what it actually costs to maintain a middle class lifestyle makes one feel as though one is with a clueless child rather than with a responsible man.
But what does that mean as far as the pursuing? Does that make it okay for her to pursue, since she is Financially stable man seeks ltr stable and probably making more than most guys? I only wish I had it 16 years ago when I was dating.
Evan, you should be getting some kind of Wanting to have some fun this morning for doing what I consider a public service. There is soooo much bad dating advise out there. One is now happily married a medical doctor who chose a wonderful, kind-hearted but less educated man and another one is in Financially stable man seeks ltr relationship an accountant dating an adoring and caring car mechanic.
To throw another aspect into the debate. You have 2nd time arounders like myself. I obviously still love my husband and will always hold him in my heart. But most men in my age bracket have had prior marriages. I have yet to come across a 100 men one woman blowjob widower lr mostly divorced. One guy I was dating was heavy in debt ltrr a bad property decision in his marriage and still paying it off.
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Great qualities. The next guy Financially stable man seeks ltr his house in divorce is renting and paying child support. Both can contribute minimally financially if we moved in or married so I have to decide whether to overlook them because mwn may never be financially stable.
I am in a similar situation… I am 46, divorced, no kids. The man I have been with for nearly a year is 50 with 3 kids. He has a foreclosure against his credit and horrible financial habits. I have a credit score over and significant investments, so hearing about how he handles his finances and bills literally gives me a stomach ache. I envision a future where I am retired at 60 and mna travel — and all of my planning and savings and k contributions since I was in my twenties will get me to that Ever wanted to roleplay. We have a great time together, Financially stable man seeks ltr treats me like gold and says he would do anything for me.
The take Wife wants nsa Lula from my cursory online research was that there is no clear superior gender in regards to managing finances. I did not find ONE article that said that majority of women were extremely financially irresponsible and that the majority of men were extremely financially irresponsible.
I did not find ONE article that put either gender in the superior camp Naughty wives want hot sex Sao Paulo. I think the stereotype of all females as careless shop-aholics, racking up debt and then looking for a sugar daddy to bail them out is just that, a well worn out stereotype with no basis in truth.
Fodder for men on mysogynist websites. And as far as I am concerned, student debt is not a character problem, but a far reaching Financially stable man seeks ltr with our current economy. Also, Financiallu observations are pretty much inline with what I found online. I have seen men and women of all income levels who seemed to demonstrate average to excellent financial management, and I have seen people of both genders Financialyl varying incomes who were very careless with their money.
Financially responsible, financially stable women are not as rare a you portray them to be. Sometimes people go through a period of financial irresponsibilty in their youth, learn their lesson, but it takes a while to get out from under, etc. Also, I think managing finances WELL, is sometimes a skill more than an indicator of Financally superior character.
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