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A typical scenario goes like this: And, unfortunately, attraction levels are usually fixed. Go on Facebook and look up someone who expressed unreturned interest in you, say, four years ago.
Are you more interested in her now? Maybe marginally — maybe she has a better fashion sense now; maybe a more impressive career. But your basic attitude probably hasn't radically transformed, right?
Of course, there are rare exceptions here. Occasionally, people can go up a few rungs on the attractiveness ladder.
Maybe you do a Chris Maybd and radically change your physique. Or you do a Mark Zuckerberg and go from being a random nerd to a powerful rich person.
Personality, which is such a huge factor in attraction, tends not to change drastically. Shy people stay shy.Need To Get Off Thursday Evening
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Very happy for you. But you still might be facing an uphill battle here. Well, asking your friend out in an appropriate fashion is really really hard.
Not good. What this means is that the best you can do is have a hideously awkward conversation.
Terrible, I know. At which point, she either expresses joyful surprise, or cautious curiosity, or apologetic repulsion.
And either your friendship gets taken to another level, or it gets killed off, or it somehow survives the awkwardness. This is what you have to keep in mind — that you might well be rejected.
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