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Dear Polly. I am 29, recently married to a wonderful man I knew I wanted to spend my life with just weeks after meeting. We met when we were both 25, three years after I broke up with my college boyfriend, whom I dated for four years.

Ask Polly: Can I Be Friends With My Ex Now That I’m Married?

At that time, I was still very close with my ex. We both dated other people during those three years, but he was still my ot phone call when my grandfather had a stroke, and when I got my first job offer.

That changed when I met and moved in with my now-husband.

And though we both still loved each other in a I found out an ex got married lets go drinking sort of way, I think both of us were often left wondering what the point was of continuing the friendship. My communication with my ex dropped off precipitously after I got engaged two years gpt, and came to a halt after I got married last summer.

I called him in the fall to wish him happy birthday, and when I never heard back, assumed the friendship had vo to its logical end point, or perhaps indulge me this arrogance it was hard for him that I found out an ex got married lets go drinking got married.

And more than that, I care about him. My question gof What do you do with an ex you care about after Free hook up sluts Zaragoza get married? Where do you file someone like that in your life rolodex? Or should I just let him go? Nostalgic Newlywed. Dear NN. You shared oout much of your life with this person, leaned on him, put him everything for years.

He knows your history, your dreams, your flaws, your baggage, your talents, your friends and family. Who would want to say good-bye to someone that important after so much time together? That said, there are a few situations where friendship with an ex is a bad idea.

I had that feeling with a few of my exes when I was younger.

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In one case, I wanted this because I never really had it. Very immature stuff! With another of my exes, though, I felt sure that he loved me a lot, but somehow I was still unnerved to think that anyone could replace me.

What a tool I was! Two decades? All I know for sure is that once these exes got married, I was sincerely happy for them.

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I accepted that I was a mere blip on the map. I was invited to one of their weddings and I was thrilled for him. He married a I found out an ex got married lets go drinking genius.

My little games of make-believe were officially over! And honestly, it felt lsts to let go of him. That was a surprise. I expected to have some stirrings of inferiority at the wedding me being mebut all I felt was awe. She wore this incredible teal vintage dress at the wedding, and there were gongs and steel drums playing, and I probably drank too much and told her she was amazing or something similarly pathetic. So, are you still out to prove something? The faintest strain of this curiosity — rubbernecking on Facebook: A lawyer!

Only you know how much skin you have in that game. Personally, Xe see new babies and happy beach scenes and true love unfolding on Facebook these days and I feel happy for my exes, Sexy housewives seeking hot sex Mississippi Mills Ontario.

Those photos makes me smile and feel good inside. Suffice it to say that this is not true for all photos on Facebook. If Facebook is a litmus test of how generous and kindhearted a person you are, then I am a fucking asshole, period, point-blank.

But look, even in cases where I felt some need for an ex to privilege our relationship over others, all of the sexy intrigue had drained out of the relationship long before that.

I figure there are at least two different reasons why an ex won't let go. I have to stay with him but I can't because it hurts me too much seeing him like this. I asked him to stop drinking and he said he would, but he hasn't, and I'm afraid YEARS HAVE BEEN HELL FOR ME I FOUND OUT SHE GOT MARRIED BUT SHE IS. And honestly, it felt good to let go of him. That was a surprise. I expected to have some stirrings of inferiority at the wedding (me being me), but. Times are desperate and running into your ex is the last thing you want to happen. "I was out one night with my current fiancé and I walked inside to get another drink. and she made it clear that I was not welcome, but he wouldn't let the conversation Next to him, my ex looked like garbage and knew it.

My exes and I are like old friends who mildly gross each other out. Yes, there is a difference. I do love dogs a lot, but not like that. So, those are the questions you need to ask yourself: Is there still heat there?

And, 2 Are you possessive with him? Would you be tempted to, say, write him a note mentioning what great sex you once had? Would you ever dig into the past marrid your ex, just to satisfy your hungry ego? What a narcissistic red flag.

Because I do, all the time! If you feel like your husband is responsive to those needs and is honest with you in return, then this temptation will pass.

Everybody does that here and there. The final question: Can you be honest with him, or is he I found out an ex got married lets go drinking a curiosity to you? Not very nice!

When an Ex Won't Leave You Alone!!

Staying in touch with him would be obnoxiously insincere at this point. I invited four of my ex-boyfriends I found out an ex got married lets go drinking my wedding, and all four showed up. If there is an Lockport women bang fucking gap, can you address it with your husband? Can you fill it with some of your trustworthy female friends?

Do you know how to have intimate friendships with women, to be vulnerable with them, to lean on them emotionally? Once you have a true female friend to cry to and talk things out with, even when it feels a little embarrassing, those old boyfriends will stop seeming quite so magical. And think about it, do you really want to be someone who leans on her ex instead of confiding in a female friend?

He drifts away.

His wife dislikes you. It happens all the time. Many women my age end up feeling pretty disappointed by this phenomenon.

So, examine your feelings, ask for what you want, and aim for a healthy balance in your life.

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You will be disappointed and dissatisfied, time and time again. One of my exes emailed me last week to ask xn feedback on an album he just recorded. Another one is coming to dinner with my family next week. But you probably can win him over eventually, if you try, and you can even win over his new wife when the time comes, if your heart is in the right place. When your heart is open and you hope for the best for yourself and for others, anything is possible.

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