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One of the surrogates was Rotem, though neither he nor his colleagues were Male sex surrogate Wyomissing in the article. Because surrogates aren't licensed or regulated by any government agency, women who want to hire one are left to their own devices, relying on Internet research or a referral from a therapist who believes in the practice.

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The vivacious, Adele-shaped blonde told me via Skype that, growing up in a rigid Mormon household, she was taught that a woman's virginity was a "gift" to bequeath to your husband on your wedding night. But she didn't find that husband at Brigham Young University, nor in the two decades following. In her late thirties, she left the church and decided to act on the carnal Male sex surrogate Wyomissing she'd been repressing, but her two attempts at sex were excruciating and unsuccessful.

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She waited another decade before attempting sex again, with a different man, but the outcome was the same. Two years ago, at 53, she hired Rotem for a day treatment. He wooed her like an old-fashioned lover, reading her poetry, slow dancing with her, soothing her with essential oils. After earning her trust, they moved on to the next level of sensory engagement, showering together in the Male sex surrogate Wyomissing bathroom attached to his office, or leading each other, blindfolded, around the neighborhood.

On the ninth day, with the help of a little numbing lidocaine, they had intercourse. It was uncomfortable at first, but gradually she relaxed enough to enjoy it and had an orgasm. Rotem accepted all of it without judgment. I think a boyfriend would've taken things too personally. Their sex, she said, is "great. Sometimes I'd burst into tears, and sometimes uncontrollable laughter. Rhonda, 36, a petite copywriter from Seattle, was dating a man she adored, but as the relationship became more physical, the fact that she was still Male sex surrogate Wyomissing virgin in her midthirties weighed on her.

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They come to feel desired, even beautiful, simply because he focuses so intently and calmly on them. But what happens, I ask, if he's not attracted to a client?

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