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This My submissive side looking entry about domination and submission and this one about BDSM terms have great overviews of many of the definitions and possibilities. Even acts that seem straightforward, like spanking, can become dangerous if done improperly for example, spanking too hard or hitting delicate parts of the body. Power play can bring up emotional issues as well.

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Identify some baby steps to take, and make sure you are explicitly clear about your boundaries beforehand. Any time one of you utters the safeword, that means that you need to immediately stop lolking you were doing and check in with each other.

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One of the easiest ways to play up the power dynamic is by using your language. You can emphasize your servitude to your partner by asking for their permission in the bedroom.

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Plead with your partner to touch or kiss you. Punishment can create some extreme power dynamics, so make sure you looing about it beforehand and agree on proper punishments.

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Make sure you start with less intense punishments. For example, your partner might withhold kisses from you for an hour.

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During your play periods, have your partner come up with certain guidelines for your behavior, including things that are necessary and things that are forbidden.

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Come up with punishments for disobeying their instructions. Do chores for your partner.

You should also be sure to have aftercare sessionswhere you cuddle and debrief with each other lovingly after these experiences.

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